Women LEARN The Hard Way What Pushes MEN AWAY

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Women LEARN The Hard Way What Pushes MEN AWAY

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0:00 So, I have mentioned this before and I'm going to mention it again. I think that
0:05 as women, we need more older women as role models, which I know is a controversial take and you know, little
0:12 girls don't want to look up to, you know, older ladies. They want to look up to young pretty ladies, but seriously, I
0:20 I think we've got a lot to learn. And I mean the kind of women that actually want to teach you useful things, not
0:26 jealous, bitter older women that did everything wrong and then think that gives them some qualification to tell
0:31 you how to live your life. Hey, it's Christine Grace. Welcome back to my channel. Today is another reaction video. Like the video on your way in.
0:38 Let's get straight into it. So, this video was sent over to me by one of you lovely people. Thank you very much. And
0:43 it's called The Biggest Mistakes Women Make with Men That Pushes Them Away. And it's from the Laya Rose Show. Now, the
0:49 whole episode is obviously over on Laya Rose's channel. I I don't think I've actually reacted to her show on my
0:56 channel before. Um, I've seen clips from it. I know obviously who Laya Rose is and what she's about. So, yeah, we're
1:03 going to check it out together. Um, she's interviewing uh a lady called Allison Armstrong who is a relationship
1:10 expert. I've seen a lot of her uh clips coming out of the Chris Will podcast, which is a podcast that I do actually
1:17 watch a lot of. Um, so yeah, I'm intrigued to check this out. I know of
1:22 Allison Armstrong, and I'm always intrigued to hear what she has to say. So, let's check some bits out together.
1:28 Against them, I would I became better at attacking them and manipulating them
1:34 because of what I'd learned about them. And Ellen called me at Ending Hunger Orange
1:41 County, which is the organization I was the head of, um, and said, "Allison, men
1:48 are attracted to you like bees to honey, and when you're done with them, it's as
1:53 if they've been with a vampire." Wow. I'm like, "Little old me." And she
1:59 proceeded to tell me about every time she'd seen me emasculate a man, diminish
2:06 a man, take the wind out of his sales. Every time. What did that look like? Because, and the reason I've got to ask
2:12 this is I think most women don't even know when they're emasculating a man.
2:18 Yeah. They wouldn't think they're emasculating a man at all.
2:23 Can I point out the two tracks real quick? Yes, I'm sorry. Yeah, please. No, cuz they go together. So
2:30 all the things we do to try to get a man to love us,
2:35 we don't have to. And it even gets in the way because men already love us.
2:43 We don't have to work to get them to love us. If we stop diminishing them, if
2:48 we stop disempowering them, if we stop making it harder for them to produce the results that they've got to produce,
2:56 that's what gets in the way. the the love part they they grant that they're they are born adoring their
3:04 mothers looking into those eyes
3:09 and it's the it's the misunderstanding begins by about the time they're one and
3:15 years old like my grandson's one and a half. So it's we don't have to work to
3:20 be loved. They love us and just if if you let that in, right? If you let that
3:27 in and could Yes. Are there bad men? Very bad men. Yes. And there are very
3:33 bad women too. But the rest are born and
3:38 stay loving women. They love us. They need us. And they're not trying to not
3:46 need us. Now, there's some groups way over in the edge now of men trying to
3:52 not need women, but it's because they've had the same kind of frustration and
3:57 getting what they need from us. But normal, ordinary,
4:02 born loving women, born wanting to protect women, born wanting to provide
4:08 for women. This is what I often notice about the feminist narrative is that it's based on the presumption that men
4:16 are inherently evil. And I always criticize it because I
4:21 think do you not have one dude that you like? Like not one. Now I know obviously
4:27 there's going to be unfortunate cases out there where there are women who who that is the case for them,
4:32 but most women like no. You've dated a few guys where it hasn't turned out
4:37 ideal. Maybe you've been hurt, but surely you have a dad, an uncle, a grandfather. Like, you believe they're
4:44 inherently evil, too. It's just crazy to me. But it goes right because they protect
4:50 us the way they see that we need to be protected, and that can make us really
4:55 angry. I can do that myself, right? So, we have a reaction to what they perceive needs
5:02 to be protected about us, which is another thing to align on in a marriage.
5:08 Honey, this this is what I need to be protected from. Mostly, we need to be protected from ourselves, from the
5:18 See, this is why I love this lady because she's right. She's right. And so many women don't want to admit this and
5:25 they want to think that, you know, it's always the men hurting us. But the reality is we hurt ourselves. You know,
5:32 we fought for sexual liberation and empowerment and what do we do? We become online We sell ourselves for
5:39 money. You know, we wanted all of this stuff. We wanted to go out, work, be in
5:45 the workplace, and now look, we're all off our face on meds and miserable. You
5:50 know, we wanted freedom to reproductive healthcare. What do we do? We murder our
5:56 offspring. So, she's right. She's absolutely spot on. critical voice in our own heads
6:04 that pipes up whenever he doesn't act the way we expect him to. Well, that's because he doesn't love you and he doesn't love you because you're too
6:10 this, you're not enough that, right? So, it's we need to be protected from that.
6:16 So, if someone accepted their men love me,
6:22 there's no scarcity of love. I am loved.
6:28 That changes a whole life. That changes how you be in the world. And one of the
6:34 things that's most important about that is we're either on the offense. We're mostly most women are on the offense
6:40 with men or on the defense with men. Both of them cause mischief. If we could
6:48 neither be on the offense, attacking like I was, or defensive,
6:55 prove it to me. Show me. Right. If we could be just in the middle. open. Who
7:00 are you? Who are you? And how much do you want to know who I am? Really?
7:09 Oh. Oh, we can begin. And then there's what I call due diligence, especially
7:14 for picking a mate. We say the M word too soon and the D word too soon.
7:20 There's marriage.
7:26 She said mate, so it threw me off. so much we need to get to know about each other to see if we fit and I learned
7:34 this from men actually started asking men you do you want to be married almost
7:40 all of them said yes but they never left out the sentence afterwards the
7:46 qualifier when I meet the right person if I meet the right person to the right
7:52 person hopefully I'll meet the right person so I listen very carefully.
7:58 Right? So, I started asking the question, what makes a woman the right person for you to marry?
8:05 There were there are 12 things on the list that make a person the right person
8:10 to marry and none of them are love. Nobody said love. I love her. That
8:17 that's just that was the given. That was just that's the easy part. Loving women is not scarce to them. So, they don't
8:24 have to find a woman to love. They find a woman who
8:29 they can Oh boy.
8:35 I I warned Harris that this happens that every question has at least five ways to go.
8:42 Men commit differently than women. Men men pick up the whole package.
8:51 So they start by looking. They're looking for a woman with complimentary
8:56 strength. They are looking for strength and they see a woman that's really, really,
9:01 really strong, but they don't need to be duplicated. And they don't want to be duplicated. They want to be admired for 9:08 the ways that they're strong that you aren't. And the only reason they want to be admired by you is because they admire
9:14 you. It's not because they think so little. We want to be admired by the people we admire. So men scan for
9:22 complimentary strength. It's it's in their nature. They do it all the time. We do it too for a different reason, but
9:29 they do it. It's like they're always filling a team or looking for a partnership. And
9:35 and and then when they find it and oh, she likes me. That's one of the 12
9:42 things. She likes me. Did our parents pay Did your mother teach you to look
9:48 for men you liked? Mine didn't.
9:54 I I was taught to look for beautiful men, handsome, strong, rich. Do you know
10:00 that's that's a good point. That is a very good point. That's with the imprint imprint back in
10:05 the 70s. So still is in a lot of ways. You mean instead of men you like
10:12 if they need to check a box? It never even 100% we know that that's true now. I mean just take a look at one of the many 10:19 thousands of street interviews there are out there. You will get a direct data pool of young women, you know, fertile 10:26 aaged women saying what they look for in a man. And it's never I like him. It's 10:32 never we get along, you know. It's never I 10:38 enjoy being around him. It's physical attributes. It's hypergamous things. 10:44 It's Yeah. It's never just I like him. Someone I like 10:49 showed up. Do you like him? Educated. Do you like him? Yes. It never even showed up. Do you 10:55 like him? What do you like about him? And like when women are like, oh, I'm so in love with him and oh, and the 11:02 chemistry is amazing. And I'm like, okay. And do you like him? What do you mean? Do I like him? Well, if you were 11:10 to have children, would you hope they would be like he is because you prefer how he is? Huh? What? We're not taught 11:19 to think of these things. But one of the things that makes a woman the right person is she likes me. Another is she 11:26 doesn't emasculate me too much. 11:31 Wow. The bar is on the floor. Yes. and too much changes. 11:37 Men in their 30s, for example, will put up with a heck of a lot more emasculation than a man in his 50s. What 11:44 we call the stages of development. A prince, highly adaptable, although he'll 11:51 be really upset with himself for betraying himself. A king, no, kings have very low tolerance for 11:57 emasculation. They'd rather be alone than to be diminished by a woman. So being liked 12:04 which includes being accepted. And so when a man is looking for a partner, he's looking for those complimentary 12:10 strengths. And then okay, what goes with this? 12:16 And when he chooses her and we feel it in our bodies before they ever say, "Will you marry me?" We can feel when 12:23 they have picked up the whole package. We feel safe. We feel loved and we feel 12:29 safe. And it's because they have they have they have accepted the stuff that 12:35 goes with what they value about you the most. That that's just part and parcel. And if one of their friends says, "Oh, 12:42 but she's so that's just how she is." And he's he's not out to change it. Even 12:48 though it might hurt him, even though it might be irritating, even I think the onus of responsibility is always on the individual. You know, it's 12:54 that saying of if you're going to marry someone, you need to be well aware that everything you don't like about them is 13:00 going to get worse. And I I definitely think that's true in most cases. Um I also think it's true that you're never 13:06 going to like everything about someone and you're always going to have to take the bad with the good. You know, at the 13:13 same time, I also think that it is each of our individual responsibilities to be aware of what parts of us are 13:19 potentially hurting those that we love and care about and to actively and continuously work on those things. I 13:25 don't believe in the mindset of that's just how I am. Um, this is my personal take. You are absolutely free to debate 13:33 me on this in the comments, but I believe that you shouldn't be going 13:39 through life expecting someone to just take you as you are. You shouldn't go 13:44 through life just hoping that someone is going to accept you as you are. Um because me personally, I I don't want 13:51 someone who is just going to accept me as I am. you know if I have got bad 13:56 habits or if I am not looking after myself I don't want someone to just 14:02 accept me for how I am. I want someone to actively encourage me to be better 14:08 you know not even necessarily strong encouragement but I I want someone to be able to say like I don't think this is 14:15 good for you. You know I I want to be with someone that wants the best for me and encourages me to want the best for me. Um, I also think that it's your 14:22 responsibility as a human being to be aware of your flaws. And, you know, it 14:27 makes a huge difference just being aware of them. You know, I don't want someone to feel that they have to put up with 14:34 things that make them uncomfortable. Um, you know, I want them to know that if 14:39 something makes you uncomfortable that they are with someone that recognizes that recognizes that and is actively 14:46 working on, you know, amending that situation. Now, of course, we're all human beings. It's not going to happen 14:51 overnight. So, of course, there might be a period, a long period, maybe the whole relationship, maybe the whole 14:57 relationship, that bad part of you that rubs the other person up the wrong way, never really goes away, but you are 15:04 working on it. That's my thing is that you should always actively be working on bettering yourself in whatever way that 15:11 is. you know, if it's breaking a bad habit, if it's, you know, cutting out, I 15:16 don't know, drink, alcohol, gambling, whatever it may be, 15:22 anything it is. If it's learning how to speak in a way that isn't emasculating 15:27 or learning how to make someone feel loved and appreciated, like whatever it is, I just think you you're always 15:33 supposed to be working on that. You know, life has an end. We're not here forever. So, you might as well use that 15:40 time actively trying to be the best you can. Um so yeah I don't I don't 15:47 quite agree with this idea of take me as I am and you know accept me for as I am 15:53 but I do believe in the concept of love and that you can love someone and you 15:59 know you can put up with the things that perhaps aren't ideal for the sake of the 16:07 things that are really really great and you don't want to risk losing but at the same time I think there is also an onus 16:13 of responsibility on the individual just as there would be on you to consistently work on those things that you know due 16:21 to human nature and just time could get worse and to try and not let them you 16:27 know even if they don't even if you can just stop the things from getting worse even if you can't just necessarily make 16:33 them better if you can stop them from getting worse that's an achievement in itself because as we established earlier you know that most people the things 16:39 that you don't like about them with age and time are going to get worse So, if you can even just slow that process down 16:44 a little bit, um I think you're doing your part. But that's just that's just my personal take. I'm not saying that 16:50 everyone has to adapt that world view. That's just how I feel about the whole um you know, accept me as I am type 16:57 mentality. Though it might trip him up, he's not going to try to change it. He bought the 17:02 package. And yesterday with Ellen and Andrew, the 17:09 question was, "What do men don't know about women?" And many of the things were men don't know what women don't 17:16 know about them. That's men don't know what women don't 17:23 know about men. Men don't know what women ah okay I get it. One of the most important things for men which is why I 17:30 love they can they can do our understanding men workshop in person. It was only for women. men get to watch it 17:36 online and be my students and learn what women don't know about men and they find out all these things they didn't know 17:41 about themselves. So, here's the thing, just to finish that one. Women don't buy 17:48 the whole package. And it we actually need to do it intentionally. And if I 17:54 ever took on being a a marriage counselor, which I sometimes end up being like that 18:00 in odd ways because I interact with my students a lot. Um, 18:06 we commit one acceptance at a time. One 18:11 H. That's how he is. H, that's what he needs. H, that works better for him. 18:18 Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. 18:23 I've known women who had wedding ceremonies 30 years ago and there's 18:29 hardly anything about their husband they have accepted. They're still trying to change him at 18:35 his core. They're trying to change who he is, which is expressed in what he 18:41 values, what's worth his time and energy. And they're trying to change what he 18:46 spends his time and energy on. No, that that feeds him. It it feeds him. That's 18:53 why he does it, cuz it feeds him. You want him to not be fed or they accept it in a dismissive and uh resigned way. 19:01 That's not acceptance. Not acceptance. Let's put up with Let's be resigned to it. Not acceptance. 19:08 And that creates hostility in a marriage. Oh my gosh. It's very uh dark. A dark energy that 19:15 brings it. Yes. That's a good word for it. It's and if only it was dark and still, but 19:22 it's so damaging. It's it's it's cancerous. 19:28 anywhere from a full-on assault to just a cancer eating away, eating away, eating away when I want to change you. 19:36 Why can't women, some women feel like they can get a man to marry them basically that they like or that they 19:41 love? And then there's, you know, conversely, the women that are married that are thinking, he was not the man I 19:47 married. Like, where's the romance? Where's the love? Where's the attention, the care? Mhm. And I think that a core principle you're 19:55 sharing here which is so powerful is that men when they marry they don't go 20:01 into the marriage you know ready to they've already accepted the whole package. 20:07 Yes. But women go into the marriage and they're not necessarily aware of what they're marrying. I mean it's I think 20:13 what you're what you're getting at here is we don't understand these people we're marrying. we don't or 20:19 the people we're dating. And so what happens is is we either marry them somehow and then we don't understand 20:25 them and there's these chronic issues in the relationship that make us unhappier and unhappier and unhappier and drive us 20:32 apart. Or if we're dating, we just can't get to the marriage state because we are just not really we're we're we're maybe 20:38 um uh emasculating them in a way we don't even realize or we're turning them off after just a few months. You know, 20:44 we become the vampire as opposed to the princess. And and so some of these core things about understanding men 20:52 what is it that you think would be the key things then that a woman has to understand if she's going to properly 20:58 love I'm intrigued to know your guys's thoughts um obviously majority of you being dudes like do you think this stuff 21:05 is accurate? Is this conversation funny to you? Like I don't know. I'm intrigued 21:12 to hear your thoughts. A man and be loved by one and be loved by a man. 21:17 men and women. And there's some is she in here, okay? 21:23 Because especially as our hormones change, as women age, we become more 21:30 focused on producing results, more oriented that way. We can become 21:36 more focused. But in general, estrogen will produce a diuse awareness in women. 21:44 To men, we appear bit scattered. Put a man on estrogen, he knows exactly 21:52 how he got that way. Our brains are configured 21:58 to scan for safety. Am I safe? Am I safe? Am safe? Are we safe? Are we safe? 22:05 No matter what we're doing, there's part of us that's paying attention to safety. 22:11 That is not true for men. single focus has them pay attention to 22:17 what am I going to produce next? What is there to do next? What am I producing next and next and next? First 22:24 things first, not the multitasking that Dus awareness has us do. So 22:30 understanding that then we can start to reach towards each 22:35 other to communicate better because anyone focused on productivity 22:41 their communication is going to be for the purpose of productivity. Hand me that. Go do that now. Give me 22:49 that. Is that done yet? It's all organized around productivity 22:54 for women as a physically smaller and weaker gender, which we're profoundly 23:00 aware of in ways that men don't even know and and they've cried when I've illuminated it 23:07 for them. We feel safe when we feel connected, 23:12 especially to the people we perceive as strong. So like they're scanning for 23:18 complimentary strength. We're scanning for are you strong enough to protect me? 23:23 Are you strong enough to provide for me? Are you strong enough to make strong children with me? So, we're scanning for 23:30 that strength. But behind it is a fear that if we're not connected, if I don't 23:37 feel like we're connected, you're going to use that strength against me. 23:42 So, I have to keep trying to make sure we have this feeling of connection to 23:48 know that, you know, I'm here and you're going to save me from the tiger, whatever the tiger is today, even the 23:53 one in my head. So, we're we're like on auto redial to connect and connect and 23:59 connect. And it causes problems. It causes 24:04 problems because they're single focused. try connecting with a wall 24:10 and it could be an interruption. It is being like connect and they're just like yes 24:15 yes and they this is why I would call we say we have a opposing instincts that 24:23 that do you seek security and productivity? Oh yeah, we got her done. We got her done. We nailed it. Yes. Or 24:31 are you looking for the feeling of safety in connectivity in connection? 24:36 So, a man, for example, since we're talking in that way, um, 24:43 being productive, be hunting the deer, hunting the deer, hunting the deer. Oh, yeah. Okay, we're getting it. Oh, that's 24:48 the problem. Identify the problem. Identifying the problem is is a huge success, which is why they listen the 24:54 way that they do to us when we're upset. What's the problem? What's the problem? What's the problem? So, identifying a problem is being productive. Then coming 25:00 up with a solution is being productive. And then we interrupt them to get the 25:06 feeling of connection back. Hi honey. Text. We call. We open the home office 25:13 door. Hi honey. Hi. If they even lift their head. And 25:19 then we went to get connection. And she's so brilliant. like she's so 25:26 emotive and yeah, she's just really explaining it in 25:32 a way that I feel is accurate. Our attempt to connect was rejected and 25:38 now I'm even less safe than I was before. He's mad at me. No, he's mean. Is he he's mean or is he mad at me or 25:44 why why didn't he look up? Was it cuz what I said to him this morning and we spin out. 25:54 Yeah, we do that. We spin out trying to figure out the why, but we don't come up with accurate 26:03 answers because we answer our why questions with why a woman would have done that. 26:10 Wow. And that's Yeah. For the drama, all the unnecessary drama 26:16 comes in. Yes. because they're reacting the way we would have or or that bad best friend 26:21 that hurt us or whatever that woman that whatever. And it's not even 26:27 not the male experience. Yeah. Sorry. It's not just even that we think it. We're sure of it and we'll 26:34 tell them you did this because of that. No, I didn't. 26:42 And they turn around and walk away. Why are you walking away? And if he were to articulate say because 26:50 this isn't worth doing, you can't hear me. I can't be heard. I can't win here. 26:56 And isn't that just, you know, the perfect micromanifestation of what's going on at a greater level? 27:02 Men have walked away from dating. Why? Because of this stuff. Because of this 27:08 stuff. This is a waste of time and energy. They just shut up. 27:13 when they can't be heard, they just shut up. And there's so much about them we never 27:20 see or know because they're we don't listen long enough and we're sure we're right. I mean, there's a a joke. The 27:28 man's alone in the woods and he speaks. Is he still wrong? 27:37 Yeah. Yeah. So in all likelihood, a woman who's struggling even to get to the 27:44 point to have a marriage where now he becomes different and there's a good reason why he becomes different. He will 27:52 become different the moment you say yes. The moment he decides you're the one and 27:57 you agree, he will change because because they buy the whole package. When 28:03 you say yes, he's now married. He's now married. He's just been upgraded to husband 1.0. He's going to function with 28:10 the accountabilities of 1.0. It starts now. When's the wedding? I don't know. 28:15 She's dealing with that. But he's being a husband before the wedding. The wedding's for the community, for the 28:21 friends, for the fun, for her. He's already a husband, which means he has holds himself to new standards and new 28:30 territory. It's my job now to protect you from that. I watched you struggle with that 28:37 the whole time we were dating. Now I'm going to protect you from it cuz you're mine and this is my job. And so they 28:45 change. They really do change when they pick us and we agree. They change. Their 28:52 accountabilities expand. And if we aren't supporting them in what 28:58 they're being accountable for, they have to stay in protect energy. and protect 29:03 energies like like lead protecting themselves in this case. No, you're even just working so hard to 29:09 protect you. They have to go. You're saying they can't play with it's a stress now. Yeah, it's now a stress to protect you. 29:17 Honey, you're wearing yourself out on the wedding. Honey, you're so tired. Honey, can you just let that go for now? 29:26 Men need our vitality, 29:31 our life force recharges their battery to go out there 29:36 and be productive. So when we're tired, it's like having 29:42 your charger. You can't plug in. She there's nothing to plug into. She's too tired. That's a 29:49 really beautiful way of describing it. And it links to, you know, mythology as 29:56 well. You know, if you've looked into sort of ancient mythology or any kind of philosophy, you'll often see like chaos 30:05 referred to as feminine and order referred to as masculine. And often the 30:10 kind of story goes that order comes from chaos, but like chaos is the part in 30:15 which it comes from. And obviously you can see the similarities there in 30:20 childbirth. You know the the the child is born of a woman and the man provides 30:26 order to that child's life. So it's really quite beautiful the way that she's putting it. And it really does 30:34 again go back to feminism. Feminism has not made women more full of life. It's 30:42 drained us. It's put us to work. It's made us productive. It's made us tired, 30:49 you know. So, how that's going to create further divide between the sexes because 30:54 how are men going to get charged when the women have been sort of 31:00 stripped away from that life force? So, where are the men going to get it? Cuz the men are supposed to get it from us 31:05 and we can't give it to them because we don't have it either. Like everything has just been sort of surgically 31:11 removed um by design. Um, and now we're all trying to find a way 31:18 back to the source, but it starts with women. This is why I often say to you guys, I know the majority of you of you 31:24 are guys, but that's not where my, you 31:29 know, everything I say is is not for you guys because I I'm I'm a woman. We have a different life experience. I can only 31:36 tell you what I think, but I can't give you advice. I can't tell you what I think you ought to be doing or how you 31:43 ought to be doing things because I just can't understand that the things I say it's it's to women. It's to women 31:49 because I genuinely believe that we have so much to offer and it's all just been 31:54 kind of, you know, stripped of us, given up, whichever way you want to look at it. We've lost it. And 32:02 this is why at the start of the video I said, you know, I think we need these older mentors who seem to really get it. 32:09 Um because they have the experience. They have the experience. I mean, and this lady, I don't know how old she is. 32:14 She mentioned that she was around in the 70s, so let's just say she's at least 50. She's full of life. I mean, yeah, she's 32:21 got gray hair. She's certainly, you know, got a few wrinkles, but she's beautiful. Like, guys, correct me if I'm 32:28 wrong here, but she's a very attractive lady. She's full of life. She's full of that energy. 32:37 And yet I know women probably, you know, 32:42 half if not a quarter of her age who are older in spirit than what she is 32:48 showing. So yeah, I think that the real 32:54 way to battle feminism and the current divide between the sexes is the men are already doing what they do best. The men 33:00 are already being productive. Uh, you know, whatever way you want to look at that, the men are bettering themselves. 33:05 They're going to the gym. They're creating communities. They're starting businesses. Or they've gone the other way. They've looked at the problem 33:11 logically and gone, "Well, I'm done with women." Which even that you could argue is productivity in itself. They're not 33:17 wasting their time on something that they don't think is going to work. You know, that's your prerogative. 33:23 But women, it's like it takes two to tango. And the only way to solve this problem is if both parties are taking accountability for what they can offer. 33:31 and women aren't seemingly taking the accountability for what we have to offer. And I think it's women like this 33:36 who are speaking very frankly and also like emotionally. That's how you're going to connect with women. You're 33:42 going to connect emotionally. This is why I've mentioned before, you know, the approach of just telling of girls that 33:48 they're Like yeah, factual, true, but women aren't like men. That's not going to actually evoke some kind of 33:53 change. But a woman like this who's much more emotional about it, sure, she's going to piss off a lot of feminists, 33:58 but there's going to be some women out there that start to reconsider things and realize what I'm saying. Like, hang 34:04 on this, hang on a minute. This woman's a lot older than me, but yet she's youthful. She glows. She's happy. She's 34:11 energetic. She's bubbly. Why aren't I like that? That's just what I think. Why not? Let 34:17 me know what you think in the comments section below. I'm really intrigued to read your thoughts on this one, guys. I think this lady's great. I'm definitely 34:23 going to watch the rest of this podcast um in private. It's too long to do in a 34:28 video on here, but you should definitely go check it out if you can. Her name is Allison Armstrong. I really like what she has to say. But I'm a woman, so you 34:37 know, if you're a woman, you have a different take. Please let me know. I know the majority of you are guys, so 34:42 I'm intrigued to hear what you think. Do you think she's right about these things? Do you think she's wrong about these things? Especially in her 34:49 interpretation of men. Um, as far as I'm concerned as a woman, I think she's pretty spot on. Um, I understand that 34:55 there's going to be a lot of women that disagree with that, but for me, I think despite that, she's still right about women. But as for guys, I don't know. 35:02 You guys tell me. I look forward to seeing what you have to say. As always, if you like this video, please do give it a thumbs up on your way out. Be sure 35:08 to subscribe to the channel and hit that notification bell to keep up to date with all of my content. 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